Love is a very strange thing indeed. You tend to love people with all your heart, but you don't get the same kind in return. And sometimes even if people love you, they make mistakes, some forgivable, other regrettably not. And sometimes even after you have forgiven, it is difficult to forget. Any little instance, word or action can remind of the hurt. Especially in cases where you have been wronged by someone you consider to be part of your very soul...a reason for your existence. Such people hurt all the more because you think you are understood, or rather, should be understood best by them. What can you do at such times but let go of your own feelings and continue to accept the other's faults.
However, life can become difficult then, as do choices. Then you feel like taking the route that is easiest for you...and wish to find solace and peace at last in utter darkness, because I can't live with or without you...
DISCLAIMER: The post above does NOT relate to anybody living or dead. If any such allusion has been discerned, it is purely coincidental :)
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"but let go of your own feelings and continue to accept the other's faults."
its not that easy!!!
"taking the route that is easiest for you...and wish to find solace and peace at last in"
yes finding solace in loneliness or solitude...
yeah love is very very very strange...
someone loved me i didnt know..i loved someone they didnt know..someone loves me i cant love back..
this love is really strange strange...talking about love itself brings about a wave of too may strong emotions ..soooo... i should stop..
keep blogging regularly..!!
You know i've been through this feeling! And sadly as you mentioned i disagree to agree that there is an easy way out of this! If i'll comment further you'll consider me a sadist so i better shut up!
just one quote i would like to share:
Decisioons- sometime they make you happy, sometimes sad, sometimes guilty, sometimes proud, sometimes hurtful and sometimes miserable but you've to make sure that the decios irrespective of consequences should always be right!
Disclaimer is superb u diplomat! :P
decision*
The topic of love seems to excite you guys a lot!:P
Sanky: I know it's not easy to accept others' faults! But it's better to save the relationship than nurse your wounded pride. I know it's hard to do, but I practise this all the time...I practically have zero pride/ego left ;)
By taking the easy way out I meant Death...I know, sombre, but just came to my mind.
And yes, I will post regularly. By the way, why're you not reachable? Busy kya?
Omi:
I meant death is the easiest way out. No life, no feelings, no complications. Such awful thoughts enter the mind's of many people...was just thinkin about it.
And you should comment without any reserve...why bother what I think of you? I won't judge you, will just think..."H'mm, there's a different and interesting opinion!" :)
Death isnt easy way out, its the wussy way out! Again person with zero ego according to me is with zero self respect! You've to make sure both the partners in a relationship are trusting and respecting each other. After sometime you start taking shit or should i say "save the relationship" just cuz one has become others habbit! Thats worse cuz dominator will always move on leaving dominee hurt! Staying back for saving relation is good! But saving relation cuz to save a habbit is bad! Dunno if am wrong, but i can always give benefit of doubt for 3 - 4 times after that i have to think if the other person is loveworthy or just becoming my habbit! :)
Omi: I never said death is the best answer, did I? I don't support it...unfortunately, several people kill themselves for the sake of love.
Ego and self-respect are two different things altogether. Ego is something I'm trying to get rid of completely.
I didn't understand what you said about habits. You mean the dominant person will take the other for granted? If yes, then I agree with you...that happens.
@Tasha
yeah love does gets too many sentences out of me...
its weird .. very weird ..
-- i m not unreachable .. i have become a lunatic .. seeking too much solitude .. yeah .. i think i am going crazy... to be continued on my blog.... :)
Sanky: It's not weird, I can understand your feelings...call me if you need to talk...whenever you want. And please don't go crazy...I'm like that now, so who will support me? :)
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